Having worked retail in the adult industry and as a sales manger for Good Vibes Wholesale, I’m often confronted with people who have never seen a packer*. The questions I am usually asked are: “This isn’t meant for penetration, is it?”, “What is this used for?” and, “Why would someone want a flaccid penis?”

My work in the sex toy business brings me in contact with people from all walks of life, and from all over the world. I am constantly reminded that not everyone is as privileged as me to be surrounded by such an amazing and wonderfully diverse group of people who represent such a broad range of orientation and sexuality.  I remind myself not to be upset by these questions, as sometimes being a “sex educator” is all part of the trade. Therefore, I don’t blame people who are dumbfounded by packers; I blame the severe lack of sexual education in our world.

After reading this article about an individual (considering gender transition) being fired from their job for wearing a ‘fake penis’ to work, naturally, my first reaction was anger. But, then I stepped back and tried to see if from the employer’s point of view: they had an employee who they believed identified as a woman, wearing a “fake penis” into work. How can I be angry with someone who probably has never heard the terms “transitioning” or “transgender?”  I believe it’s the responsibility of any company — large or small — to be educated on transgender rights, but when there is a severe lack of such rules in company policies and lack of government enforcement of transgender rights, I am not surprised by their reaction, just saddened by it.

I feel like this is a very important time for our community. With transgender individuals in the news, such as Chaz Bono appearing on one of the country’s highest-rated shows, Dancing With The Stars, and the debate over the Girl Scouts allowing a transgender youths into their ranks, I feel like open discussion over transgender identity in mass media is at it’s highest point in history.

It’s moments like these where we need to push forward and openly discuss these issues, and continue to educate. We must remember that for some of us, our community is a bubble of queer awesomeness and that we have to occasionally step out and confront those who challenge our beliefs. Gender discrimination affects all of us, no matter cisgender, transgender, or genderqueer.

So as the sales manager for Good Vibes Wholesale and one of the proud co-creators of the Private Packer, I would feel remiss if I didn’t take this opportunity to thank all those who stand up for their sexual identity, especially when oppressed by those who don’t know any better.  It is your determination to be true to yourself, that gives courage to those still struggling with their own identity.

*What IS a “packer” you say? A packer, or soft pack, is a replica of a flaccid penis made of silicone or softskin and available in many colors and sizes. “Packing” refers to someone of any gender, sexuality or physical body putting a soft pack in their pants or underwear. Soft packs are often used as a means of gender expression, gender play, or simply adding a bigger bulge.

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Introducing the new Private Silicone Packer! 

Here’s the official product blurb:

‘The unique design makes for a more realistic presence. The dimensional balls create an authentic feeling while being worn or felt. The elongated lip (located at the base of the shaft) helps maintain proper positioning and prevents any unwanted slippage. It is available in vanilla, caramel and coffee.’    

Here’s the unofficial product blurb:

This needed to be made, so, we made it.

Gaze upon the result of weeks and weeks of production fine tuning and debate. Isn’t it glorious?  Lets dive right in, shall we?

What makes this product different that the rest?

1) Comfort.  We designed the upper portion to lay flat.  This will allow for more comfort when pressed against the body during wear.

2) Design. We designed an elongated lip at the base of the Private.  This was intentionally added to avoid the issue you see below..

Pictured above, you’ll see what happens when you put a softskin packer (without a lip)  into a harness. The base of the shaft slips thru the o ring, causing an unflattering ‘falling out’ appearance.  You may ask  ‘Well, I mean… how often do people put packers into harnesses anyway?’

You’re right. A lot of folks wear packers in a packing strap, where this type of slippage isn’t really an issue.  But, if  you intend on swapping your packer for a dildo, you’ll want to pack with something that is compatible with your harness.  As opposed to wearing a packing strap for your packer.. over your harness for your dildo etc. etc.

3) Three Dimensional Testicles. The three dimensional testicles (say that three times fast) not only provide for a more realistic anatomical feel, but their length help keeps the shaft from arching out too much and creating an over-sized bulge in your pants.

4) Material. Our Private is silicone!!  Silicone is a great material for packers because it is non-permeable and super easy to clean. Silicone is also stiffer than other materials and allows for the possibility of  ‘pack and play.’ This is not the case with other softskin packers.

You’ll see, from the picture above, that facing the shaft out forces the back to bend.  That should give you an idea of the overall stiffness of the Private.

5) Pack and Play. When harnessed, you can see that it’s relatively easy to point the shaft straight out. The natural shape and material of the Private makes the shaft want to return to it’s default position, making continuous penetration slightly difficult.

Well… That’s it!

I’m quite proud of this product and I truly hope you enjoy it! Please.. Please tell me what you think!

Contact me with any questions you may have or to purchase our latest and greatest creation!

Regards,

Mark Espinosa

Wholesale Manager

Sales@goodvibeswholesale.com

This industry is incredibly unique.  Naturally. For the most part, ‘sex’ is still considered a 4-letter word to a lot of people. Add to that the negative perception some people have regarding sex shops. To an ‘average’ person, I imagine going to a trade show would immediately make them aware that a lot of what they had previous believed was incorrect.  Retailers, nowadays, cater to a wide range of customers. Stores range from factory outlets to small boutiques. Costco, and a Mom-and-Pop candy shop. Both have their place in the world and I couldn’t say if one was better than the other.  What they do have in common is that a lot of them really just want what’s best for the customer. Boy scouts’ honor.

It is this reason why I am so proud to work for Good Vibes Wholesale. Our goal is to get quality products to the people who only sell the best.  Our line of vibrators consist of industry guaranteed top sellers.  The twist is that we package our essential vibes  in unbranded, educational packaging.  We allow on the product to sell itself, not unrealistic or unnecessarily blatant sexual imagery.   Our line of dildos are all made of 100% body-safe silicone.  Our ‘Me’ bath and body line is completely vegan.  From our non-sticky massage oils and creams to our noticeably high-quality  sex kits.

Having worked in the sex industry for over five years, (spending a good amount of time on the sales floor) I feel confident in saying that I have a strong grasp on what  modern customers wants.  And also who the modern customer really is.  The idea of openly talking about sex and masturbation is coming out from the shadows and I’m proud to be affiliated with a company that has over 34 years experience doing it.  For me, retailers are my customers and all I want is to make my customers happy.  How do I do that?  By providing you with everything you need to make your customers happy.  Symbiosis at its finest!

I’m here whenever or however you need me.  I stand behind my products and my company stands behind me.  What do you think? Sound Good? Great.

Regards,

Mark Espinosa

Sales Manager for Good Vibes Wholesale.